Today is my grandmother's funeral but the kicker is that I am not allowed to attend because I'm pregnant.
I know it sounds ridiculous, but it's a Chinese tradition that pregnant women are not supposed to attend funerals, cemeteries, etc to protect the unborn baby. My husband can't even be a pallbearer because of it. There are probably other superstitions that are connected to it too.
Although I don't believe in the superstitions, I have to respect them.
When my grandmother was sick in the hospital, before she passed, I was told not to go visit her, in fear that I might catch an illness that may affect the baby. But once I found out her condition got worse, I went anyway.
And I'm glad I did. Because two days later, she passed away in her sleep, in the hospital, at the ripe old age of 91.
I was really upset when I was told I couldn't go to the funeral, but I know my grandmother would not have wanted me to go. Such is life.
She left this world knowing that her great grandchild was going to be born. And she even left my baby a gift.
I'll miss her dearly.
Banned from Grandma's Funeral
January 22nd, 2011 at 04:21 pm
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I'm so sorry you couldn't be there for the funeral.
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